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  • WHY BOOK ATOMIC HABITS IS GRADED SO HIGH?

    WHY BOOK ATOMIC HABITS IS GRADED SO HIGH?

    book cover atomic habits by james clear

    The Atomic Habits book by James Clear is considered one of the top-notch books in the self-help genre. In this blog, I will be discussing why this book gets ranked so high in the genre of self-help. I will also reveal certain key principles on habit forming from the book.

    I always believe that the real purpose of a book is to bring change. And why won’t we grade that book so high if there are thousands of people to acknowledge that the book revolutionized their lives? ‘Atomic Habits’ by James Clear is one such book. This blog is particularly important for people who love books, but can’t spare much time out of their busy lives to sit with a book in their lap.

    ‘Atomic Habits’ by James Clear is one such book that has the power to bring instant change in day-to-day life. In the field of self-help or personality development, this is among the few such books which does not merely throw philosophies onto the face of readers. It guides the reader through practical steps towards better habit forming.

    The book Atomic Habits can be termed as recent compared to other competitor books of the genre like ‘Think & Grow Rich’ and ‘How to Win Friends & Influence People’. The book was published in 2018. Astonishingly, it is a very small-sized book. It consists of only 306 pages, and if we exclude ‘Notes Section’ from the book, the book gets reduced to merely 207 pages. How would someone justify not reading a book that is only 207 pages, and can change their life significantly?

    Having given the intro to the book ‘Atomic Habits’, now I will be sharing the things that impressed me most from the book.

    The center of gravity of the book is ‘habit-forming’. The book relieves us from the pressure of believing that it takes lots of effort to develop a good habit. However, developing a good habit only requires a little understanding of how a habit is formed. For example, making your bed. Now this seems to be an insignificant work to be done at the morning. But once we consider that as the first achievement of the day, it would give a new angle of looking at the rest of the day. It would boost our confidence to follow the rest of the day in a disciplined way.

    This one task done well would lead to reading a chapter of the book, or spending half an hour exercising. Thus an apparently insignificant task can be transformed into a catalyst to push the day to a disciplined routine.

    As Warren Buffet had said that habit-forming works just like compounding. One habit builds on the next, and each good habit keeps assisting the next one. Moreover, the results are never linear in pattern. These work in a hockey-style pattern. At the start, results appear exciting due to high energy. With time, boredom starts taking over, and the results start declining. It is this phase of habit-forming that is very difficult to survive. If someone can get through this, then there appears to be a vertical upward trend in the path to progress.

    Another aspect of good-habit forming, which has been projected by ‘Atomic Habits’ is that progress on the path of habit forming will not always be observable to the person changing. It is similar to going to the gym. In that, for initial weeks, months, or even years, there appear to be no visible changes. However, after considerable time has been spent doing that, people start observing the change in your physique. Similar is the case with reading books. One can’t become Aristotle after having read a couple of books. It takes time for the results to appear.

    Another myth cleared by the Atomic Habits book is that of setting high aims. Since childhood, we have been hearing about having big, bold aims. James Clear suggests that having big goals is not significant. Thousands of people set big goals but can’t achieve anything significant. Instead of having tall goals, it is important to have better systems. The systems are the keys to achieving bigger targets, and merely big goals can’t achieve anything.

    According to James Clear, habit forming needs a particular path. Without having created that path, the progress to that habit can’t be measured. Just, for example, you decide to eat healthy food from now on. The moment you decide that out of motivation, you need to sketch out the eating plan on a piece of paper. Having prepared that plan, you need to be assured that you follow that path. Without having a measured way of approaching the goals, progress is not be possible.

    A brilliant trick that I learn from this book is regarding attaching our new habits to the existing habits. James Clear says that it would become far easier to develop a habit if we attach that habit to the thing that we are already doing. For example, we can do 20 push-ups before brushing our teeth. Now every time we would go for a toothbrush (which we often do effortlessly), we would be reminded of doing push-ups, and we are least likely to miss out on doing that. Over time, our new habit would also be as effortless as our former habit had been.

    The Atomic Habits book gives so much importance to measured progress. James Clear suggests that measuring progress not only sets the parameters for accountability. But it also gives a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. Nothing can be more relaxing than having the ability to measure the progress made on the path to success.

    Moreover, another key aspect that no one escapes is that of boredom. The path towards progress is very slow and takes lots of courage to face continuous boredom with no apparent results in front of us. However, if one can cope with the boredom of forming good habits, the results of that habit will shock the rest of the world.

    If you are someone who is into the field of reading self-help books. I highly recommend you read the book that I just finished. It was Jonathan Eig’s Ali: A Life. You will love the journey of Mohammad Ali’s life, and how he overcame the hurdles of life.

    To conclude, Atomic Habits by James Clear is a powerful book on defining the science behind habit forming in the simplest and logical way. It empowers the reader to master the art of habit formation. If you are interested in reading this book, here is the Amazon link to order the book online: https://amzn.to/4kPxTQK  

  • Book Review – Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill – Focus24 Book Club

    Book Review – Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill – Focus24 Book Club

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  • This book is talk of the town – here is why – ‘THE COURAGE TO BE DISLIKED’

    This book is talk of the town – here is why – ‘THE COURAGE TO BE DISLIKED’

    THE COURAGE TO BE DISLIKED BOOK SUMMARY

    Introduction

    Hello booklovers and focus24 family. ‘The Courage to be disliked’, the book which is talk of the town, I just finished this book twice to make this review as i wanted to make it sure that I do not end up recommending something which I am not convinced of.

    About The Author

    The book is co-authored by Ichiro KishimiFumitake Koga. Ichiro KISHIMI is a Philosopher, Adlerian psychologist and translator of English and German languages.

    What Made This Book Unique For Me

    ‘The Power of Now’ by Ekhort Tolle , and this one book in my hand are the only two books in my 15 years of reading non-fiction that made me confused at the end about whether I should have read these or not. Not because the books are bad, but because these books shackle the foundations of your belief systems so much that if you don’t grasp the message exactly as being given, you are under a serious threat of losing your mind. Stay with me for a while as I give you the complete summary of the book.

    What The Book Is All About

    The book is based on the Psychology of Mr. Alfred Adler, a famous Austrian psychologist. The author repeatedly refers to the concept in the book as Adlerian Psychology.

    Style Of The Book

    The book is shaped in the form of conversations between two characters, referred to as ‘Youth’ & a ‘Philosopher’. The youth in quest of knowledge and search of answers on life, visits the philosopher for 5 nights and they discuss various philosophical issues. According to the author, the purpose of giving this book the shape of conversation was inspired from the discussions between Socrates and Plato.

    As you might know, Socrates left no written piece of thoughts behind for generations to come. However, his student Plato wrote down the conversations between him and his master, which are now a big philosophical treasure. The author says that the concepts being discussed were so difficult to understand that there had to arise various questions in the minds of the readers if the book had been written in simple descriptive form. So, he brings up the possible queries that readers might have in the shape of ‘youth’ debating with the ‘philosopher’.

    Our perception is like well water

    At one point in the book, the author says that the state of happiness and sadness is just the perception of looking at things, exactly like the temperature of well water. The water from the well remains at 60 60-degree temperature throughout the year. If you drink it in summer, you would feel its coolness, and during winters it appears to be warm. The feeling of being hot and cold is because of the temperature of the surroundings and not the water itself. Similarly, our reaction to any aspect of our life is based on our society.  Every aspect of our life can be looked at either positively or negatively basing on our state of mind.

    The urge of being important

    A Strange concept that I found repeated in the book ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People, ’ which I highly recommend by the way, is using any means to get attention or superiority – even by showing how weak you are. Yes, gaining superiority by showing weakness. Adlerian psychology portrays that the urge for attention can push human beings to any limits. People use various means and ways to stay important, and one of those is relying on misery. They explain how unlucky they are, how bad the society has been to them, how their life has been full of hardships, and all that stuff is just to remain significant and abnormal. The way a child wants attention of the parents, and if he does not find any suitable way, he would start shouting, throwing things away and becoming a bad child but, would crave for attention at all cost. The same thing continues with our minds as we grow up.

    Out of 10 People, 7 will ignore, 2 will like, & 1 will hate you

    I loved this beautiful concept shared by the author about the perception of society. He says that ‘In the teachings of Judaism, it is believed that “If there are ten people, one will be someone who criticizes you no matter what you do. This person will come to dislike you, and you will not learn to like him either. Then, there will be two others who accept everything about you and whom you accept too, and you will become close friends with them. The remaining seven people will be neither of these types.” Now, do you focus on the one person who dislikes you? Do you pay more attention to the two who love you? Or would you focus on the crowd, the other seven? A person who is lacking in harmony of life will see only the one person he dislikes and will make a judgment of the world from that.

    Conclusion

    You will find dozens of other thought-provoking ideas in the book, which I am sure you would love to read. Overall, an interesting pick and a book worth reading. I highly recommend you consider giving this book a read. Here is the link to order the book online https://amzn.to/3WPAC3p (affiliate link). You can also listen to free audiobooks, having free trial registration. That’s all for today. hope you liked this blog. Till next time, stay hard, stay strong, and stay focused with Focus24.