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  • WHY BOOK ATOMIC HABITS IS GRADED SO HIGH?

    WHY BOOK ATOMIC HABITS IS GRADED SO HIGH?

    book cover atomic habits by james clear

    The Atomic Habits book by James Clear is considered one of the top-notch books in the self-help genre. In this blog, I will be discussing why this book gets ranked so high in the genre of self-help. I will also reveal certain key principles on habit forming from the book.

    I always believe that the real purpose of a book is to bring change. And why won’t we grade that book so high if there are thousands of people to acknowledge that the book revolutionized their lives? ‘Atomic Habits’ by James Clear is one such book. This blog is particularly important for people who love books, but can’t spare much time out of their busy lives to sit with a book in their lap.

    ‘Atomic Habits’ by James Clear is one such book that has the power to bring instant change in day-to-day life. In the field of self-help or personality development, this is among the few such books which does not merely throw philosophies onto the face of readers. It guides the reader through practical steps towards better habit forming.

    The book Atomic Habits can be termed as recent compared to other competitor books of the genre like ‘Think & Grow Rich’ and ‘How to Win Friends & Influence People’. The book was published in 2018. Astonishingly, it is a very small-sized book. It consists of only 306 pages, and if we exclude ‘Notes Section’ from the book, the book gets reduced to merely 207 pages. How would someone justify not reading a book that is only 207 pages, and can change their life significantly?

    Having given the intro to the book ‘Atomic Habits’, now I will be sharing the things that impressed me most from the book.

    The center of gravity of the book is ‘habit-forming’. The book relieves us from the pressure of believing that it takes lots of effort to develop a good habit. However, developing a good habit only requires a little understanding of how a habit is formed. For example, making your bed. Now this seems to be an insignificant work to be done at the morning. But once we consider that as the first achievement of the day, it would give a new angle of looking at the rest of the day. It would boost our confidence to follow the rest of the day in a disciplined way.

    This one task done well would lead to reading a chapter of the book, or spending half an hour exercising. Thus an apparently insignificant task can be transformed into a catalyst to push the day to a disciplined routine.

    As Warren Buffet had said that habit-forming works just like compounding. One habit builds on the next, and each good habit keeps assisting the next one. Moreover, the results are never linear in pattern. These work in a hockey-style pattern. At the start, results appear exciting due to high energy. With time, boredom starts taking over, and the results start declining. It is this phase of habit-forming that is very difficult to survive. If someone can get through this, then there appears to be a vertical upward trend in the path to progress.

    Another aspect of good-habit forming, which has been projected by ‘Atomic Habits’ is that progress on the path of habit forming will not always be observable to the person changing. It is similar to going to the gym. In that, for initial weeks, months, or even years, there appear to be no visible changes. However, after considerable time has been spent doing that, people start observing the change in your physique. Similar is the case with reading books. One can’t become Aristotle after having read a couple of books. It takes time for the results to appear.

    Another myth cleared by the Atomic Habits book is that of setting high aims. Since childhood, we have been hearing about having big, bold aims. James Clear suggests that having big goals is not significant. Thousands of people set big goals but can’t achieve anything significant. Instead of having tall goals, it is important to have better systems. The systems are the keys to achieving bigger targets, and merely big goals can’t achieve anything.

    According to James Clear, habit forming needs a particular path. Without having created that path, the progress to that habit can’t be measured. Just, for example, you decide to eat healthy food from now on. The moment you decide that out of motivation, you need to sketch out the eating plan on a piece of paper. Having prepared that plan, you need to be assured that you follow that path. Without having a measured way of approaching the goals, progress is not be possible.

    A brilliant trick that I learn from this book is regarding attaching our new habits to the existing habits. James Clear says that it would become far easier to develop a habit if we attach that habit to the thing that we are already doing. For example, we can do 20 push-ups before brushing our teeth. Now every time we would go for a toothbrush (which we often do effortlessly), we would be reminded of doing push-ups, and we are least likely to miss out on doing that. Over time, our new habit would also be as effortless as our former habit had been.

    The Atomic Habits book gives so much importance to measured progress. James Clear suggests that measuring progress not only sets the parameters for accountability. But it also gives a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. Nothing can be more relaxing than having the ability to measure the progress made on the path to success.

    Moreover, another key aspect that no one escapes is that of boredom. The path towards progress is very slow and takes lots of courage to face continuous boredom with no apparent results in front of us. However, if one can cope with the boredom of forming good habits, the results of that habit will shock the rest of the world.

    If you are someone who is into the field of reading self-help books. I highly recommend you read the book that I just finished. It was Jonathan Eig’s Ali: A Life. You will love the journey of Mohammad Ali’s life, and how he overcame the hurdles of life.

    To conclude, Atomic Habits by James Clear is a powerful book on defining the science behind habit forming in the simplest and logical way. It empowers the reader to master the art of habit formation. If you are interested in reading this book, here is the Amazon link to order the book online: https://amzn.to/4kPxTQK  

  • Breaking Free from Social Anxiety with The Power of Now – Focus24 Book Club

    Breaking Free from Social Anxiety with The Power of Now – Focus24 Book Club

    book cover the power of now, focus24 book club

    Social anxiety is becoming a dominant issue in modern society, but it can be tackled effectively with the insights from The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Let me explain how.

    The Root Cause of Social Anxiety

    Before diving into how this book can help, let’s first understand the root cause of rising social anxiety.

    Did you know that, according to the Global Overview Report 2024, the average American spends 7 hours and 3 minutes every day on internet-connected screens? That’s a staggering amount of time! But why have we reached this point? Let’s explore the answer through The Power of Now.

    Escaping the Present Moment

    One of the key reasons for excessive screen time is our inability to sit with our own thoughts. People seek distractions to escape their minds, avoiding self-reflection at all costs.

    Social media provides the perfect escape. It creates a win-win situation for advertisers and users—users find a distraction from their thoughts, while advertisers profit from increased engagement.

    However, let’s not be fooled—social media companies do not design their algorithms for our well-being. Their goal is to keep us hooked by feeding content we like, ultimately exploiting our addictive tendencies.

    The Loss of the Present Moment

    Eckhart Tolle argues that modern society has lost connection with the present moment. We are constantly bombarded with notifications and digital distractions, preventing our minds from achieving peace and clarity.

    This leads to chronic anxiety, as our thoughts are either stuck in past regrets or future worries. As Tolle says in his book:

    “If you cannot be at ease with yourself when you are alone, you will seek a relationship to cover up your unease.”

    Social Media and Its Hidden Impact

    Our biggest problem today is that we do not spend time with ourselves. Boredom, which should lead to deep introspection, has been hijacked by social media notifications.

    Now, I’m not against social media. It has revolutionized communication. However, we need to acknowledge who benefits from these addictive algorithms. It’s not you or me—it’s the tech giants profiting from bombarding us with ads, making us feel incomplete until we buy their products.

    The Power of Now: A Solution to Overthinking

    Tolle’s book is a masterpiece when it comes to taking control of your thoughts. It prevents your mind from wandering aimlessly and teaches you to focus on the present moment.

    One of my favorite illustrations in the book explains why people enjoy extreme sports like skydiving and free-climbing. According to Tolle, the pleasure in these activities comes from their ability to force complete focus on the present—freeing the mind from regrets and anxieties.

    Understanding Your Thought Patterns

    Tolle encourages readers to observe their own thinking patterns. How often do we check what our minds are dwelling on? He explains that the human mind naturally fluctuates between the past and the future because it survives on time—while the present moment is timeless.

    Bringing our attention back to the present requires effort, but doing so frees us from unnecessary stress and worry.

    The Impact of The Power of Now

    This book has made a monumental impact in the self-help field. It sheds light on the dangers of social media and explains how we use it as an escape from the now moment—which is the exact opposite of what we need for happiness.

    Many of us spend most of our lives dwelling on past mistakes or worrying about uncertain futures. However, history shows that many of these worries never come true, yet we waste countless hours stressing over them.

    The Law of Attraction and Thought Patterns

    Our minds have the power to shape reality. If we constantly adopt negative thought patterns, we will unknowingly create negative experiences. Preparing for the worst may seem like a smart strategy, but it ignores the law of attraction—which states that what we focus on expands.

    Conclusion

    Social anxiety is a growing problem, and social media companies won’t help solve it—because it doesn’t serve their business model. However, books like The Power of Now provide the tools to break free from anxiety and reclaim control over our thoughts.

    If you’re ready to embrace the present moment and transform your mindset, this book is a must-read!

    ➡️ Get your copy of The Power of Now today!

  • THE HOUSEMAID BOOK SUMMARY – FOCUS24 BOOK CLUB

    THE HOUSEMAID BOOK SUMMARY – FOCUS24 BOOK CLUB

    THE HOUSEMAID BOOK SUMMARY - FOCUS24 BOOK CLUB

    Book Summary

    Thriller, Suspense, Romance, and Murder. You name it, this has it. An incredible Story ‘The Housemaid’ from Fredia McFadden.

    The story is of a psychopathic millionaire Mr Andrew Winchester. A young, handsome, and successful businessman. He tricks one of his employees, Nina to marry him. Nina is a single mother with a baby girl named Cecelia.

    Long after being accepted as Mr Winchester’s wife, Nina discovers how insanely psychopathic her husband was. He punishes her like an insane prisoners by locking her in attic.

    He locks her in the attic over small mistakes. He tortures her by giving commands from outside the room. He monitors her through the camera. Nina gets tortured by being orders to pluck her hair, spray pepper into her eyes and things like that.

    Due to his influence and wealth, Mr Andrew Winchester succeeds in getting his wife declared as mentally sick. He portrays to the world that it was she herself who does this to her.

    Nina can’t get out of this marriage easily. Mr Winchester threatens to take away her daughter from her if she tried to do so.

    Nina gets an idea to get out of this miserable life. She hires a beautiful young maid with a criminal background

    Lilly is convicted of a murder and on parole from the jail. Nina hires Lilly on purpose. She wants her husband to get attracted to her, so that she could get a safe exit.

    Nina succeeds in her plan. Andrew gets attracted to Lilly. Lilly does not resist, as she had been intentionally treated badly by Nina. Lily feels no pity for cheating on Nina’s husband because Nina has been abusive to her.

    Andrew threw Nina out of his house. She acts to be upset about it. But deep inside, it was her own plan.

    In the execution of all this, Nina is helped by her gardener of the house, an Italian guy named Enzo. Nina later on even sleeps with Enzo in his house.

    It does not take long for Lilly to realize that her former boss and now husband was insane psychopath. She is punished by him the same way Nina was being done. However, Lilly was not the one to suffer and without resistance.

    Lilly gets locked in the attic for torture over a small mistake she commits. This time, once Lilly comes out of the locked attic, she traps Andrew into the same place, and tortures him the way he had done to her and Nina.

    The torture goes to extremes and Andres dies during that.

    Nina visits the house to see her husband dead. But she was happy to be relieved of this evil guy.

    However, she does not want Lilly to suffer for that. Feeling pity for Lily to be punished for the murder, asks Lily to Leave. Nina convinces herself to accept the responsibility of the murder and calls the police.

    When police arrive. The head of the team appears to be the father of Mr Andrew’s former fiancé. He knew that his daughter was tortured by this insane psychopath lying dead.

    He understands the possible reason behind all this. He helps Nina in getting this murder declared an accident.

    My experience of reading ‘The Housemaid’

    The way the story has been told is very, very interesting. The communicators of the story are Nina and Lilly. The reader gets an extremely thrilling experience reading the story from start to end.

    The story is full of twits and surprises.

    Honestly speaking, unto half of the book, I wanted this to end as soon as possible. But for the remaining half I never wanted it to end.

    What is the book housemaid about?

    The book Housemaid is a thriller story of a maid who gets hired by a rich woman to get her psychopath husband murdered. Before murdering, Andrew falls in love with maid Lilly and the story takes an interesting turn.

    Is The Housemaid scary to read?

    No, the book cover as well as the title of the book has given it the shape of a scary book. The Housemaid is not a scary novel. It falls in the category of thrill, suspense, love, and crime.

    Is The Housemaid based on a true story?

    No, the Housemaid is not based on true story. The author Fredia McFadden has never mentioned it to be true story. From story point of view as well, the Novel appears too taboo to be true.

    Did Nina and Enzo sleep together?

    Yes they did. Nina, the wife of Andrew Winchester did sleep with her gardener Enzo in the story.

    Does The Housemaid have romance?

    The housemaid story is not primarily based on romance, but it does have a little bit of that. Romance between Nina and Andrew, between Nina and Enzo, and between Andrew and Lilly are few to mention.

    Who is the bad guy in The Housemaid?

    Mr Andrew Winchester is the bad guy in the housemaid. He is a psychopath who tortures his wife like a criminal. He does that over small mistakes of hers. He ends up being killed by his maid after he tortures her too.

    Is The Housemaid an easy read?

    Yes, The Housemaid is pretty easy to read. The story goes smoothly as we proceed in the book. The story is narrated by the characters of the story – Nina and Lilly.

    Does Enzo speak English in The Housemaid?

    Yes, Enzo does speak English in the housemaid. Initially, he appears to be an Italian guy who barely even understands English. But at the later part of the story it is revealed that he can speak English fluently.

    He, being too attractive to be a gardener, disguises himself as a person who does not understand English at all. His purpose behind this is to avoid those wives in the colony who wanted to be seduced by him.

    Who is the main character in the Housemaid book?

    The story is equally distributed between Nina and Milly. However, Nina has a far more significant role in the story than Lilly. She is the one who plans the murder of her psychopathic husband, Andrew Winchester.

    Conclusion

    The Housemaid is a story full of thriller, suspense, romance, and surprises. It is the story of a lady who gets trapped into becoming the wife of psychopathic millionaire.

    She gets tortured and punished by him like a criminal.

    As a means of getting rid of that life, she hires a beautiful maid with a criminal record. She sets the stage in such a way that the maid ends up murdering her husband.

    Highly recommended the Focus24 Book Club. Here is the link https://amzn.to/3Fxbj01 . Grab your copy of the book.

    If you are interested in Romantic novels like this, ‘It Ends With Us‘ should be your next pick. Here is the review of the novel.

  • The Mountain Is You Book Review – Focus24 Book Club

    The Mountain Is You Book Review – Focus24 Book Club

    Book 'The Mountain is You' by Brianna Wiest

    Introduction: The Mountain is you by Brianna Wiest

    What Is The Book ‘The Mountain Is You’ About

    For What Type of Readers is the Book ‘The Mountain is You’ by Brianna Wiest about?

    What Does The Title Of The Book ‘The Mountain is You’ by Brianna Wiest Mean

    Your Previous Self Is Not Able To Carry You Forward From This Point Onwards

    Criticism Comes From Anything Created For Public

    ‘The Mountain is You’ by Brianna Wiest Supports ‘Let Them Go’ Approach

    ‘The Mountain is You’ Emphasizes on Execution Today, Then The Plans For Tomorrow

    Intentional Disorganization As an Excuse To Delay Priority Task

    Seeking Fake ‘Protection’ By Remaining Busy- ‘The Mountain is You’

    The Behavior of Dopamine Explained

    Why People With Extremely High IQ Do Not Fit Into The Society

    The World Expects You To Carry On No Matter What

    If Its Your Genuine Path, The Future Won’t Be Clear

    Is ‘The Mountain Is You’ a Christian Book

    Book Summary : The Mountain Is You

    Conclusion

  • The Psychology of Money Summary – Focus24 Book Club

    The Psychology of Money Summary – Focus24 Book Club

    Free PDF Download ‘The Psychology Of Money’ by Morgan Housel

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    Before we get into the deep insights of the book, if at all you are interested in getting a free pdf file of the book ‘The Psychology Of Money’ by Morgan Housel, there is a way to do that. All you need to do is visit pdfdrive.com and type the title of the book in the search bar. You will find a free pdf file on the site which you can download in your pc and mobile.

    Free download audiobook ‘The Psychology Of Money’ by Morgan Housel

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    The Audiobook of ‘The Psychology Of Money’ by Morgan Housel’ can be sought for free by registering on Amazon Audible. Amazon is offering 1 month of free audible simply by registering. Use this link (The Psychology Of Money)to get a free audiobook of Morgan Housel’s The Psychology of Money.

    Introduction to the Book ‘Psychology of Money’ by Morgan Housel

    The book is one of the bestsellers in the field of financial education. It was first published in 2020 and has sold millions of copies since then. The book gives an in-depth analysis of how money works, what makes the rich richer & poor poorer, and what can be done to attract as well as to keep money.

    Hardest Financial Decision according to ‘The Psychology of Money’

    According to Morgan Housel, the hardest financial decision in anybody’s life is ‘to stop the goal post from moving’. What he means by it is that in our lives, we struggle with lots of ambitions. We keep jumping from one to the next target of the financial journey. We upgrade our-life style just as our bank balance gets upgraded. This cycle goes on and on. Without having a clear goal in our mind, we just keep going, not knowing whether we have reached the goal. Moving away from the goal? Or have already reached the goal. When it comes to finances, we need to have measurable financial goals in our minds and stop re-arranging those with time.

    Why Pessimism Is More Heard And Valued Then Optimism?

    We have formulated society in a way that if a person can point out why such and such thing is a bad idea and why it is not going to work, the person is considered as an intelligent guy – someone who can oversee a danger ahead. Contrary to that, the person who just gives a thumbs up and good luck after listening to an idea is generally considered someone who hasn’t listened to the proposal with interest. We do not have full trust in ourselves and rely on other people’s votes to execute our ideas. Thousands of ideas ended up in the graveyard because someone in the audience, to prove how genius they were, discouraged the presenter by giving reasons why it was never going to work out.

    Understanding the Difference between ‘Bad Decisions’ and ‘Risk’

    The book helps us understand the difference between ‘bad decision’ and ‘risk’ in managing money. We manipulate and sugar-coat our losses by labeling it as the ‘cost of risk’. But, while judging other people’s failures on financial decisions, we label that as the result of ‘bad decisions’. It is very important for financial freedom to have a rationalized approach towards money.

    How To Know Whether We Are Successful or Failure in Finances

    Morgan Housel has given a very simple scale to judge whether you are successful in finance or not. He says that if you wake up in the morning and you realize that you can do whatever want or like to do for the day, that is the peak of financial success. Any step forward from that point onwards can be called passion, ferocity, or anything similar to that. But, financial freedom has been accomplished by you.

    Conclusion

    The ‘Psychology of Money’ by Morgan Housel is the book on managing finances, which is going to guide you right from the beginning, holding your finger from the start, and showing you all the areas of life where money comes into play. The book is not about how to make more money, but it is about how the money works. It would answer your basic questions about the money as to why we are not able to keep it once it gets into our hands. Reading this book was the best thing that happened to me in the recent past and hope for the same thing happening to you. Here is the link through which you can order your book online (‘The Psychology of Money‘). Please share your opinion about this book review in the comments sections below. With that being said, stay hard, stay strong, stay focused with Focus24.